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Issa’s Insecure & Three Reasons Why the Heaux Phase is Essential…

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In season 2 of Insecure, we see Issa has a heauxtation going on. From meeting up with random dudes on Tinder to sexing ‘neighbor bae,’ this awkward Black woman is feeling liberated or perhaps trying to. I’m definitely here for it…all of it!

After justifiably cheating on Lawrence (yes, it is justified) with Daniel, taking a break and just getting hers may be the best thing for Issa. I mean, she held ‘Mr. jobless f’boy Lawrence’ down for 2 years. So, she deserves to pop it for pimp…OKAY!

Lemme tell you why the ‘heaux phase’ is essential…

No commitment:

As women, we tend to commit to guys who aren’t our boyfriends just because he’s nice or consistent. Commitment takes energy and sometimes it isn’t reciprocated.

With the heaux phase, you can get yours and leave and simply commit to enjoying yourself. There’s no added pressure, false expectation, and minimizes feelings being hurt.

Options:

You’re not married or together and there’s no need to act like it. In this phase, you learn the importance of having options. If you want 2 or 22 (no judgment, sis), it’s your prerogative. Options teach you not to settle and relentlessly go for who and what you want.

Teaches You to be Selfish:

The heaux phase teaches you not to give so much of yourself, if you don’t want to. If you don’t want to call him back, be there for him, or consider his feelings—you don’t have to. It doesn’t make you a bad person; it makes you a person with boundaries. You learn the importance of self-care, as it relates to dealing with people.

If you’re lucky, you may end up with a Daniel during your phase. But, that’s really a bonus. The true prize is doing things on your own terms.

Go on and live, sis!

 

Courtey of LaJanee Crosby

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Panama Mint: Breaking Boundaries and Redefining Music

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In a world where genre lines are often blurred, Panama Mint is a shining example of an artist who embodies this concept. With a unique blend of hip-hop, country, gospel, rock, and pop, Panama Mint is redefining the music landscape and captivating audiences worldwide.

A Journey of Self-Discovery and Creativity

Panama Mint’s musical journey began at a young age, with early influences from hip-hop and rap. As he grew older, his tastes expanded, and he began to explore other genres, eventually developing his distinctive sound. This journey of self-discovery and creativity has led to the development of his own unique genre, which he is eager to share with the world.

Music as a Form of Therapy and Expression

For Panama Mint, music is more than just a form of entertainment; it’s a way to express himself, tell his story, and connect with others. His music is a reflection of his experiences, emotions, and passions, making it relatable and authentic. Through his music, Panama Mint aims to provide a sense of comfort, solace, and inspiration to his listeners.

Visual Storytelling and Artistic Vision

Panama Mint’s creativity extends beyond music; he’s also a skilled visual storyteller. With a keen eye for detail and a passion for cinematic storytelling, he has created a series of striking music videos that showcase his artistic vision. From the poignant “Hip Hop Blues” to the haunting “Michael Myerz,” Panama Mint’s videos are a testament to his innovative spirit and dedication to his craft.

A Commitment to Philanthropy and Social Justice

Panama Mint is committed to using his platform to raise awareness and support for social justice causes. He is passionate about advocating for autism awareness, Alzheimer’s research, dyslexia, and homelessness, and he hopes to inspire others to join him in making a positive impact.

What’s Next for Panama Mint?

With his unique sound, captivating live performances, and commitment to philanthropy, Panama Mint is poised to make a lasting impact on the music industry. Stay tuned for new music, videos, and projects from this innovative artist, and experience the transformative power of his music.

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