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Issa’s Insecure & Three Reasons Why the Heaux Phase is Essential…

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In season 2 of Insecure, we see Issa has a heauxtation going on. From meeting up with random dudes on Tinder to sexing ‘neighbor bae,’ this awkward Black woman is feeling liberated or perhaps trying to. I’m definitely here for it…all of it!

After justifiably cheating on Lawrence (yes, it is justified) with Daniel, taking a break and just getting hers may be the best thing for Issa. I mean, she held ‘Mr. jobless f’boy Lawrence’ down for 2 years. So, she deserves to pop it for pimp…OKAY!

Lemme tell you why the ‘heaux phase’ is essential…

No commitment:

As women, we tend to commit to guys who aren’t our boyfriends just because he’s nice or consistent. Commitment takes energy and sometimes it isn’t reciprocated.

With the heaux phase, you can get yours and leave and simply commit to enjoying yourself. There’s no added pressure, false expectation, and minimizes feelings being hurt.

Options:

You’re not married or together and there’s no need to act like it. In this phase, you learn the importance of having options. If you want 2 or 22 (no judgment, sis), it’s your prerogative. Options teach you not to settle and relentlessly go for who and what you want.

Teaches You to be Selfish:

The heaux phase teaches you not to give so much of yourself, if you don’t want to. If you don’t want to call him back, be there for him, or consider his feelings—you don’t have to. It doesn’t make you a bad person; it makes you a person with boundaries. You learn the importance of self-care, as it relates to dealing with people.

If you’re lucky, you may end up with a Daniel during your phase. But, that’s really a bonus. The true prize is doing things on your own terms.

Go on and live, sis!

 

Courtey of LaJanee Crosby

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The Publicist Who Changed Everything: Howard Bloom and the Art of Making Legends

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Before there was a science of influence, before algorithms decided who mattered and viral moments manufactured stars overnight, there was Howard Bloom — working the phones, shaping narratives, and building some of the most enduring legends in the history of popular music.



In an era when the music industry ran on relationships, instinct, and the sheer force of personality, Bloom was operating on a different level entirely. He wasn’t just doing publicity. He was doing something closer to cultural architecture — understanding not just how to get an artist covered, but how to make them mean something. How to make them matter. How to embed them into the fabric of American life in a way that outlasted any single hit, any single moment, any single headline.

The roster tells the story. Prince. Billy Joel. Kiss. Lionel Richie. Michael Jackson. Bob Marley. These were not simply clients. They were cultural phenomena — and Howard Bloom was one of the key minds helping to shape what those phenomena meant to the world. At a time when rock and roll was the most powerful cultural force on the planet, Bloom was at the center of it, helping to translate raw talent into enduring mythology.



What set him apart was not hustle alone — though there was plenty of that. It was his relentless intellectual curiosity, his insistence on understanding the deeper forces at work beneath the surface of pop culture. While others in the industry were counting chart positions, Bloom was asking bigger questions. Why does this artist connect? What need are they meeting? What truth are they telling that the culture is desperate to hear? Those questions drove everything — and the results spoke for themselves.

His approach was years ahead of its time. The strategies he developed intuitively in the back rooms of the music industry would later be validated by neuroscience, sociology, and the emerging study of how ideas spread through human populations. Howard Bloom was not just a publicist. He was, without fully knowing it yet, a theorist of cultural contagion — and the music world was his laboratory.



The industry has changed beyond recognition since those years. The gatekeepers are gone, the major label system has been disrupted, and the very concept of a music publicist has been transformed by social media and the democratization of attention. But the principles Bloom operated by — find the truth in the artist, find the human need they speak to, and tell that story with everything you have — remain as relevant as ever. Perhaps more so, in a landscape where genuine meaning is harder to find and easier to fake.

Howard Bloom didn’t just help make stars. He helped define what stardom meant in the most electric and consequential era in the history of popular music. That is a legacy worth understanding — and one the industry is still catching up to.

The official website for Howard Bloom may be found at https://www.howardbloom.net

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