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“Be Different, Be You”: Coach Ty’s Mission To Build Men, Not Just Wins

For Coach Ty, basketball is more than a sport, it’s a lifeline, a classroom, and a calling. From being saved by the game as a young man, to now guiding others through it, he’s built his coaching career on purpose and passion. Whether he’s leading his team through adversity, or encouraging a player in an one-on-one conversation, Coach Ty brings authenticity, heart, and a drive to develop better athletes.
Today we’d like to introduce you to Coach Ty.
Coach Ty, What first inspired you to become a coach?
I was inspired by the desire to give back through the game of basketball. This sport saved me from a lot of trouble, and coaching became a way for me to return that blessing. I want to guide others through the same path that once gave me direction.
What’s the most rewarding part of coaching for you personally?
The most rewarding part is watching these young athletes grow not just in basketball, but as young adults. Seeing them become better people, students, and leaders off the court is what keeps me going. That development means more than any win.
How do you define success beyond wins and losses?
Success to me is about growth and learning from every experience. If you can take something away from each situation and avoid repeating negative patterns, you’re already winning. It’s about constant progress, not just the scoreboard.

What’s one lesson your players have taught you?
My players have taught me patience,real patience. I’ve learned that mistakes are part of the journey and not the end of the world. They’ve shown me how important grace is during development.
How do you help your athletes grow as people, not just players?
I focus on teaching them right from wrong and how to trust their conscience. Life is full of choices, and I want them to have the tools to walk away from anything that doesn’t serve them. The game is temporary, but their character lasts forever.
Share a moment that truly moved you during your coaching career.
One moment that really stuck with me was watching my players go up to college coaches at a live period and introduce themselves. They came back proud, bragging about getting numbers or business cards. It showed me how confident and hungry they were for the next level.
How do you keep your team motivated during tough times?
I remind them that no matter how bad things feel, someone out there is going through worse. Encouragement and perspective go a long way. We lean on each other and keep pushing forward together.
What’s your favorite team tradition?
My favorite tradition is how we hype each other up. We bring that energy every single day and act as each other’s biggest cheerleaders. That kind of love fuels us.
What’s something your players might be surprised to know about you?
Most people don’t know that soccer was actually my first love. Before basketball, I was out there kicking a ball and dreaming differently. It’s a big part of my athletic roots.
What’s the proudest moment you’ve experienced as a coach?
Seeing my players grow into respectable, confident young men is my proudest achievement. It happens day by day, and I notice the little changes. That transformation means everything.
How do you handle pressure and expectations as a coach?
I leave what I can’t control to God. I focus on doing my part. I show up for my players by being present. That faith helps me carry the load.
What’s a fun ritual or superstition you have before games?
Before each game, we huddle and pray together as a team. Sometimes a player will dunk after warm-ups, and the rest of the squad jumps around in hype. It sets the tone.
How do you stay connected with former players?
I check in with them on social media and keep in touch by calling them. It’s important to me that they know I’m still in their corner. Our relationship doesn’t end when the season does.
What’s one piece of advice you’d give to young coaches just starting out?
Stay consistent in everything you do. Be true to the kids you coach and hold yourself to the same standard you expect from them. Your example speaks louder than your words.
What legacy do you hope to leave behind?
I want people to say Coach Ty really cared deeply. Whether I coached you or just talked with you, I hope you felt that I wanted the best for you. That’s the legacy I’m building.

How has coaching shaped you as a person?
Coaching has kept me grounded and focused. Knowing I have young men looking up to me keeps me away from the wrong paths. It gives my life purpose beyond the game.
How do you handle the emotional weight of being a role model for young athletes?
I live by the same expectations I set for them. If I want them to be great, I’ve got to model that in my own life. Being that example helps carry the responsibility.
What’s your coaching philosophy?
Never quit, outwork your opponent, and keep the energy sky-high. Be the biggest dog on the courtmentally and physically. That mindset makes all the difference.
Can you share a game that changed your life as a coach?
Honestly, every single game changes me. Just getting the chance to be on the sideline and pour into these athletes is life-changing. Win or lose, I’m grateful every time.
What’s the most unexpected moment you’ve had as a coach?
Getting a phone call from one of my players saying they’d been shot was heartbreaking. That moment reminded me how real life can get outside of the gym. It shook me and fueled my mission even more.
What’s the biggest life lesson you’ve learned from a certain loss?
Losses don’t define you, they teach you. Let it sting, let it humble you, but make sure you learn from it. Growth is born in those tough moments.
How do you nurture leadership within your team?
I push them to treat each other like family first. Leadership starts with how you care for those around you. If you lead with love, the rest follows.
What is one piece of advice you constantly repeat to your team?
Stay together and bring energy ,on the court, and on the bench. No matter what, we ride for each other. That unity wins games.
Do you have a signature phrase or principle?
“Be DIFFERENT. Be YOU.” That’s the standard. I tell them to never try to fit in when they were made to stand out.
What is the toughest coaching decision you ever had to make?
Letting a player go from the team was one of the hardest decisions I’ve faced. You build relationships and want to help everyone. But sometimes tough love is necessary.
How do you stay current with the game to keep evolving as a coach?
I still play and study the game daily. Watching how it changes helps me adapt. You’ve got to stay a student if you want to teach.
What would your players say about you as a coach?
They’d all probably have different things to say, but I hope they’d agree I’m loyal and true. I care for them deeply and want what’s best for them. That’s my heartbeat.
How do you want to be remembered as a coach?
I want every player to know I had their back. That I showed up, stayed real, and never stopped believing in them. That’s the mark I hope to leave.
Have you earned any championships, awards, or honors during your coaching career?
Yes, I won back-to-back championships at Hillsdale Baptist during the 2010–2011 and 2011–2012 seasons. I was named 2nd Team All-American and still hold the school’s record for most assists in a single game with 13. That chapter of my life taught me how to win and lead.
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From Volleyball Player to Volleyball Coach and Mentor: A Journey Fueled by Passion, Purpose, And A Commitment To Changing Lives

When it comes to building champions on and off the court, few names carry as much weight as Coach Ike Papes. With a relentless drive for excellence, and an unwavering commitment to his players, Papes has touched into a force to be reckoned with. Known for his sharp strategic mind and motivational leadership, Papes has earned the respect of athletes, peers, and fans alike proving that true coaching success goes far beyond the scoreboard.
Today we’d like to introduce you to Ike Papes.
Coach Papes, what first inspired you to become a coach?
I had a great coach in high school club volleyball who changed my life, and I wanted to give that same chance to another kid. My life is totally different because of that experience. My mom also coached me through grade school. I just love this sport the ins, the outs, all the in-between. I wouldn’t be doing anything else in my life except volleyball.
What’s the most rewarding part of coaching for you personally?
Watching the kids grow and learn new skills. The wins are nice and the losses are hard, but the guys I coach make it all worth it. I can connect with them and hopefully show and teach them that nothing is impossible—that they can achieve any goal they set.
How do you define success beyond wins and losses?
Growth. Just being 1% better every day. You’re not going to win every game, set, or point. And you’re not going to win in life every day. But it’s what you learn from it. That’s success without wins learning from when you lose and getting better because of it.

What’s one lesson your players have taught you?
Don’t look too far into the future be present. I’ve seen them go through the season saying things like, “I can’t wait till I graduate,” or “when I’m an upperclassman.” Then I see the sadness when they leave the team, and it hits me. I want to live every second with them and not take anything for granted.
How do you help your athletes grow as people, not just players?
We have a lot of talks about discipline and being a good person. I’ve laid out a handbook that’s structured to help them understand how to be not only a good player but also a good person. The whole goal after they graduate is to make them better people who are prepared for life.
How do you keep your team motivated during tough times?
We keep our eyes on the prize. We have a lot to work toward. We’re young and haven’t had a good year, so we’re always looking to get better. We’re not going to win those games without learning how to be in those games. Even when we lose the games we’re not supposed to, it’s always, “OK, how do we learn and never feel like this again?” Head down. Keep pushing.
What’s your favorite team tradition?
I wouldn’t call it a tradition, but we have “greeting touches.” When we see each other in the halls or whenever, you’ve got to fist bump, high-five, or hug some sort of connecting touch. I love it. I think it brings us closer, and it lets them connect without even realizing it.
What’s the proudest moment you’ve experienced as a coach?
Watching us win our first game with me as head coach—not for me, but for them. Seeing the change they made in just two weeks after I started, and realizing what we could do. I won’t get that feeling back of that first win.
How do you handle pressure and expectations as a coach?
Breathe. To be honest, I’m not going to be perfect. No coach is. I’m going to make mistakes. All I do is expect it, learn from it, and move on. When I feel like I’m under pressure, it reminds me how much I love this sport and how much I’m willing to do for it. I wouldn’t feel this way if I didn’t love volleyball.
What’s a fun ritual or superstition you have before games?
As a coach, I don’t really have any. I just let it begin.
How do you stay connected with former players?
We stay in contact through our group chats. We always have an alumni group chat to keep in touch—even 10 years from now. They’re part of what we were and they never leave.
What’s one piece of advice you’d give to young coaches just starting out?
I’m young, lol but keep your head down and learn. I still have a lot of learning to do.

What legacy do you hope to leave behind?
A coach who changes lives on and off the court. The wins would be cool, but it’s about the kids, not me. I want to change lives.
How has coaching shaped you as a person?
It’s kind of changed my life. I was always a hothead in college, but coaching has taught me to stay calm and collected. Now, when I play, it’s a different feeling it’s not just fire; it’s about how I can win within the game.
How do you handle the emotional weight of being a role model for young athletes?
It’s hard. I’m almost as old as they are. But it’s about being disciplined and doing what I preach to them. I slip up sometimes, but people learn from example and that’s what I try to be.
What’s your coaching philosophy?
Discipline not punishment, but mental and physical discipline. When bad things happen, have the discipline to stop, think, and make the smart move. Same on the court. Physically, it’s easy to slack off, eat poorly, and skip the gym. But have the discipline to keep grinding.
Can you share a game that changed your life as a coach?
I haven’t coached enough, in my opinion, to say that yet.
What’s the biggest life lesson you’ve learned from a certain loss?
No matter how much training, extra work, or planning you do sometimes it just doesn’t work out. And that’s OK.
How do you nurture leadership within your team?
I remind them that class, rank, or depth chart means nothing. Anyone can be a leader on the court. It doesn’t have to be the best player. It can be anybody as long as they have the right intentions for the team.
What is one piece of advice you constantly repeat to your team?
Discipline. I know I keep saying it, but it is the motto the base of a good team. I drive it into their heads because once we have that, we’ll go far.
Do you have a signature phrase or principle?
“100% for 100%.” Give me all of you, and I’ll give you everything I’ve got as well.
What is the toughest coaching decision you ever had to make?
I had to bench our best player for a weekend, and we lost three games we could have won. But I had to teach a lesson. It was the worst, but it had to be done.
How do you stay current with the game to keep evolving as a coach?
I play in the VLA and also play a lot of grass volleyball. I see new trends and try them out myself so I can show my guys how they work and how effective they are. I also love taking drills and techniques from other coaches on social media.
What would your players say about you as a coach?
I hope they’d say I’m a good coach who listens and pushes them to be their best on and off the court. Someone who wants to see them succeed more than anything.
How do you want to be remembered as a coach?
As a tough coach, but one who helps with hard life decisions and is there when things go bad. A path-changer, helping them find the right direction in life.
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